NOTE – This post is not safe for work (NSFW), but the graphic images will be kept below the fold.
OTHER NOTE – Since my mom is the most supportive and awesome mother that any apostate could ask for and she reads this blog on occasion, I have note that this post is also not safe for my family.
While most gender based double standards, especially those that impact everyone on a day to day basis, put women at a disadvantage, there are definitely some that are anti-men. One of them is around sex toys, at least ones for solitary use.
Fortunately things are changing. There are several different styles of sex toys available for men, but there’s still quite the stigma against them. After all, why would men need a toy, when they can just use a hand? Of course the same could be said for women, they have fingers they can use too, but anymore nobody, at least no one worthy of giving so much as the time of day, has any problem with women having and using vibrators and dildos.
The greatest reason for women to use toys is that the vast majority of clitoral tissue is deeply buried and it can take some very intense stimulation to really reach it all. In short women should use toys since they can do things that no physical appendage can and that can also help them get more comfortable with and familiar with their own responses and needs.
Men have the opposite problem. With the majority of the penile tissue readily exposed, it doesn’t take very direct stimulation for an awesome orgasm. The problem is that the human hand, especially the average man’s own hand, is a lot stronger than a woman’s mouth, vagina, or usually even her hand (as far as gay men go, their hands are also stronger than a guy’s mouth, anus, and he can more safely use the strength of his own hand than a partner can). So it can take some work to make sure you don’t train yourself to need way too much stimulation, more than a vagina can provide, during a dry spell.
Enter the Fleshlight, that is after the fold.
I’ve heard it recommended on the Savage Lovecast for at least a year and a friend has spoken very highly of his since his girlfriend got him one for Chistmas (he’s a very, very lucky man). I finally decided it was time to get one and give it a try.
So, on Sunday I went down to the local Adam and Eve and picked up the Riley Steele.
The interior is their “Lotus” style:
This particular model is designed to be the perfect replica of the vagina of one of the models, Riley Steele:
In just a few days, I’ve given it… well… umm… extensive testing… and to put it simply, it’s absolutely amazing. While it might not be as good as the real thing, it’s as close as you can get. Sure beats my trusty hand.
Men, you should buy one. Women, buy one for your favorite guy and while you’re at it, get yourself a new toy too.
Just like how every woman should probably have a vibrator or two, every man should have a Fleshlight.
What are you waiting for? Buy one all ready.